I so resonate with this - from the disruption of old sexual stories and habits, to the boost in feelings of personal empowerment and freedom, to the physical and emotional joy of having two sets of hands and two mouths and two cocks - paying attention to me and to each other. I absolutely adore being the meat in a man sandwich.
And, I haven't gotten to do that in a long, long time and don't anticipate that I will anytime soon - so I'm feeling a bit wistful, but also very, very happy for you and all that you are uncovering and bringing, both to yourself and to your lovers as well.