I still haven't the faintest idea what you mean by shouting CIVIL WAR. What I do very clearly see is someone who wants to minimize and trivialize the pain struggle, and bravery of women through the years in order to not feel so bad about himself for being a part of the oppressing demographic. The fact that nobody pointed any fingers directly at you doesn't seem to be enough. Here's a little newsflash for you, trivializing someone else's pain isn't the best way to maintain peace and harmony.