I think that if you do omit some of the things you have mentioned here, you could do fine, but I have my doubts based on some of what you've said here that you have the ability to truly change. When you comment that you've just realized that huge numbers of followers are comforting to women on Medium, I have no idea what you mean except that you're once again ascribing things to women based on who knows what. You don't speak for me, on that front, for sure. I was just as happy on Medium when I had 100 followers and there's absolutely no reason for you to jump to that conclusion whatsoever. Continually asserting that you know what other people are like (or that you know more about them than they do) isn't the way to make friends or influence anyone.

Why don't you try just being yourself instead?