I think this is so true! My husband was worried one time in a hotel when we were meeting my other lover for an MFM tryst. He thought anybody seeing this guy at our door would know that's just what was there for. I assured him that was the last thing anyone was thinking because it's so outside of their paradigm.

That's cool that your story about later life sex continues to do so well. I hope that Medium takes your note to heart that human sexuality is just a part of life. Also, I'm kind of over the whole labels thing. There are so few that truly quite fit the bill. Obviously, people can self-identify how they want to, but beyond that, I think it's good to just enjoy the ride - which it sounds like you all are definitely doing.