I think you've got this backwards. These are the things that women are much more likely to notice than men. Mostly, men care about how a woman looks, and if she shows herself to be an "asset" in front of his friends. Women, on the other hand, are much more likely to read the energy, and the subtext, noting how a man treats others with less power (are they decent to the waiter, etc.) Maybe some men notice or care about the things you've mentioned but in my experience of 6 decades, I'm going to say that it's really women who notice and care about these things way, way more than than the average man.