I too get super fed up with these sorts of guys but they are so down deep in emotions they never learned to recognize or process that they mostly cannot hear reason or common sense. They don't want to understand systemic issues and participate in improving them to help themselves and other men (and everyone else). They just want to rant at women. It's tiresome. But, this was an excellent piece and a valiant try at reaching out and talking about what's wrong with the system.