I too have men in my life who love and respect my fiery spirit, and you're right, they both deserve to be noted for that in a culture that still sometimes doesn't approve of such women, and they get a lot back from me in return. I like to point out at times that I'm a passionate person. That means I yell when I argue, but I also forgive and make up quickly. And, I bring all of myself to the bedroom. Glad that you wrote this piece and that you have people in your life who taught you well and who also accept and value you for who you are.