I would love to see a world where everyone feels loved and appreciated, but the issue with your approach is that you seem to feel entitled to that, even if you lack the single thing that most women find most attractive - confidence. Feeling entitled to a woman isn't being a "good guy" and how about all the women that you don't find attractive for whatever reason? Are they entitled to your interest as well? Are you romantically interested in every single woman who is nice?

And, rather than work on improving your self-confidence, rather than heal your childhood wounding (or whatever else is at the root of this lack of confidence), you insist in telling lies about women that scapegoat them and make it all their fault that you don't present with the social skills that appeal to most women. That's not OK and it's not being a "good guy." The shit you say about women isn't remotely true - it's incel rhetoric and if you keep saying it, I'm going to keep pointing out to you how hateful, misogynistic, and counter-factual that it is.

Your extreme lack of personal agency is a problem, and you clearly have no interest in shifting that - because then you'd have nobody else to blame. Fine - that's up to you, but as long as you keep telling lies about women and blaming them for not finding you more attractive, I'm going to keep challenging those false narratives. Women are subject to enough bullying and hate as it is without men who think of themselves as "nice" piling on with more misogyny.

And aren't you in a relationship? Why are you still going on and on about this shit rather than enjoying the very thing that you've been longing for? Why aren't you focused on that rather than continuing to go on and on with this disempowering narrative? Are you addicted to pain and martyrdom? Because that's sure what it looks like to me...