I wrote one story about one small culture in China where fatherhood functionally doesn't exist. Noting that such a culture is out there is hardly a ringing endorsement for father's having no place in their children's lives. And one person commenting insensitively to you is not remotely the same as "many of your female commenters" being in agreement.

The fact that in some cultures women have or have had multiple sex partners and where the tribe as a whole cares for and about all children is again not remotely anti-male or anti-fatherhood. It is simply pointing out the the nuclear family is not the Gold Standard that it has been made out to be. In fact, it truly only existed from 1950 until the late 1970s. Prior to that time, families meant grandparents and often aunts/uncles/cousins sharing the same home. After the 70s, single parent households were on the rise and have continued to become more and more common for a wide variety of complex socio-economic reasons that mostly have nothing to do with being anti-men. 🙄

You are projecting a whole lot of your emotional experiences onto my essays, and onto complex social dynamics as a whole and making them mean things that they don't. There's not much I can do with that, other than to say that I'm sorry that happened to you, but that still doesn't give you license to mischaracterize what I've said and to ascribe positions to me that I've never taken.