If any of that bullshit actually worked, we wouldn't have the violence against women that we do. What you've said is essentially another form of victim blaming. Women who are raped or murdered haven't "ceded control" and it didn't happen to them because they briefly forgot they could probably outsmart the perp. It happened because we live in a violent rape culture where masculinity is conflated with aggression, domination, and sexual conquest of women and people make up stories about why that's women's fault so they don't have to take responsibility for how they participate in normalizing that.