If you are talking about hierarchies of merit, I have no issue with those, but patriarchy is not a merit-based hierarchy. It's one where traditional power keeps others from having an opportunity to compete and maintains that often by violence. Is that something you really want to support?
Your conception of history is just abysmal. And the fact that you care more about "scoring for your team" than engaging with reality is tired. No, queens have not started more wars than kings because there have been comparatively much fewer queens. And that isn't even what the article said. Grow up! You are behaving like a petulant child. I have no more time for this sort of silly, baseless engagement.