If you don't already have a firm grasp on how gender indoctrination works, how it differs from culture to culture, and era to era, and what the fundamental properties of a patriarchal social system are and how they act as a framework for these norms, your degree clearly isn't worth all that much in the context of discussion about this topic.

As previously noted, I don't have to "prove" anything to you. Neither does the APA (who reached their conclusions after spending 13 years evaluating 40 years of research). This stuff is not in any substantial dispute. 96% of all research on this topic reaches the same conclusions. The only ideologue is you.