If you don't understand the difference between boundaries and coercive control, you clearly need to keep educating yourself.

New California Coercive Control Law Recognizes New Form of Domestic Violence - Castro Law Offices…

Hill clearly broke CA law:

1. Controlling, regulating, or monitoring the other party’s movements, communications, daily behavior, finances, economic resources, or access to services; and
2. Compelling the other party by force, threat of force, or intimidation, including threats based on actual or suspected immigration status, to engage in conduct from which the other party has a right to abstain or to abstain from conduct in which the other party has a right to engage.