If you speak like an incel, I'm going to point that out (whether you actually are one or not is irrlevent). And what does my lifestyle have to do with anything? I still have to meet and get to know any people that I want to have any sort of interaction with. I still have to risk rejection and deal with people who play games, and all the regular things that go along with dating. It's no different whatsoever, and don't say it's easier for a woman, because it isn't.

Evolution does not favor the biggest or the strongest (or the handsomest and wealthiest), it favors the most adaptable. And what good would it do you to be rich and ultra-handsome if you still don't know how to even approach women and talk to them? Instead of blaming others, how about taking a look at the circumstances you have control over and finding ways to be flexible and adapt to them?

As I've already mentioned, my husband the band nerd, who grew up poor in a small town and was the first in his family to go to college, read GQ for years and learned how to dress, how to act in various social situations, how to have good manners, etc. That was before the internet, when he actually had to spend money on a magazine. You don't even have to do that.