If you think the running a home and taking care of children involves fewer decisions, you are quite mistaken. Patriarchy has messaged you that this is a simple job, not worthy of much respect because it's not very complex and anyone (any woman) can just do it innately. This is not remotely true. It takes a huge amount of skill, organization, planning, and stamina to manage a home and family successfully. Most people who do it don't get good at it for several years, but the good news is, about 17% of stay-at-home parents are now fathers, so it's becoming more and more common.