If you'd read the article I linked you on the subject you'd know that privilege refers to societally granted, but unearned advantages that some people have and others don't. It does not refer to the zero-sum construct of who has won and who has lost. It means that there are some things you don't face or have to grapple with that other people do. They might in turn have advantages or privilege over you because it's fucking intersectional!!! How many times does that need to be said?

You really can only look at the world through a one-up and one-down lense and I guess I shouldn't be so surprised about that because it's what the dominance-based culture has taught you, but can't you expand your mind just a little bit beyond that? I mean really.....