I'm aware of the chips and beer stereotype and maybe it's because the shows I mentioned were more geared to female audiences (although they aren't rom-coms), but they don't show guys being obsessed with food in the same way or doing what might be considered a male counterpoint to this dynamic. This is a part of my issue - the men in these shows seem to have normal relationships with food, and the women seem to be unable to get through a tough meeting or a stressful episode, or bonding with their friends without going for the carbs and sugar (while still appearing uber-thin). It's just weird.