I'm trying to make a case for loving connections for all children Ala "it takes a village" rather than this clearly counterfactual idea that boys can't grow up OK without dads - because millions and millions of them do - and have all throughout history. Hellooo - George Washington...

Why do any kids need to be indoctrinated into genderized boxes in order to know who they are? I see a million viable healthy ways to be a man, and I don't see why a kid can't choose which one works for him for himself.