I'm very grateful that I met my husband before hook-up culture took off, so I was never a part of that either, but I've read a lot about it and yeah, it's really not good for women - who continue to engage in it, I guess because that's what their friends are doing, and as far as we've come, it's still THE most important thing for a woman to be "fuckable."

Porn showcases bad, disconnected sex that again, mostly isn't pleasurable for women, and too often these days actually models abusive behavior as sexy.

Thanks for sharing your insights.