Indeed! This is exactly what I have learned going in and out of "earthly" relationship with my TF. That stuff is inconsistent, and often painful, but in the end, the energy of Us is unbreakable. I still miss his more frequent presence in my life at times, but I'm also reaching a place where I can touch the cosmic union more fully and feel it in every cell. I no longer really care about things like if he remembers my birthday, or other things that used to feel big and important. I'm aware of this planet or other dimension or whatever it is where we are the only thing that exists. Hooking into that helps me so much with the day to day.
Sending you love...