Interesting! A while back I had a comment from an older gentleman who was waxing nostalgic about his days of infidelity, claiming that it was mostly men who did this. When I asked him who his partners were, he suddenly realized they were all in fact married women. Imagine that! This notion that infidelity is something that men need so it should have a blind eye turned to it, but that women are scandalous if they engage in it is both tired and silly. Much better to have agreements around relationship parameters the way so many gay men do.