It feels to me what you are talking about is apples and oranges. Men who are sexually harassing women want to keep them in their place as sex objects so they don't begin to believe they are equals who can compete with them. Women who turn men down for dates either just don't feel a connection to that particular man, or if they are saying men are shit, it's because they've had a lifetime of terrible experiences with men - probably with the kinds of guys whom you are sure they all want to date even though they are shitty. Women are abandoning dating in droves because they're sick of trying to find a real honest person in a sea of entitlement and bad behavior.

And I get that you've still been left feeling like shit, but it really isn't the same thing at all.