It makes me feel like an old curmudgeon, but I increasingly feel very sorry for young people. It's not like everything was perfect when I was young and first dating, but compared to now, it looks like a dream - and this $h!t looks like a nightmare. Meeting real people is too much work? WTF?

As far as young women have come in some respects, they still cave to the societal imperative to be "fuckable" as the primary goal in life - which is absurd since it sounds like they mostly aren't taking advantage of that, or at least not in a way that is actually pleasurable. Can't remember where, but I remember reading about young women imagining themselves when they have sex, trying to place what they look like and giving no thought really to what they feel like during the act. It's terrible.

I've got a 60 year old body and I sure don't care what I look like when having sex if I'm having a good time - even with a much younger, fitter partner. That kind of being present to the fun of the situation makes for a lot hotter sex.