It should be a part of sex ed, but I doubt if it often is. I think part of the problem is that sex ed is not standardized or even available at all in many places. This means that a couple of generations of young men have been learning about sex from porn, which is entertainment, not how to actually have good sex — but they don’t necessarily know that.

I also doubt that many men would bother to Google “how to be a good lover to a woman.” If they were wise, they would though…….