It's funny how men don't care about the things that women face like getting sexually harassed beginning in young childhood (happens to 85% of American women) and the incredible uptick in the spiking of women's drinks, plus all the other things that Katherine Sparks noted. There are plenty of lonely women out there as well, but those those things don't matter to you guys and have never mattered - and yet, we're supposed to feel sorry for you that beautiful women won't pay attention to you. Do you even hear yourself? 🙄 Could you be more self-absorbed and insensitive to women as anything other than someone who's job it is to make your life more pleasant?
How about you start caring about women and having some empathy for them. Most women don't care about your loneliness because you've brought it on yourselves by the way most men treat women. Mainstream masculine norms include domination of others and control of women. Cut that shit out and life will improve for us all.
"The main thrust of the subsequent research is that traditional masculinity—marked by stoicism, competitiveness, dominance and aggression—is, on the whole, harmful (to men)."
It's also harmful to meaningful relationships and good mental health. Stop blaming women and start blaming "traditional" patriarchal masculinity. That's the thing that is really hurting you guys.
