It's funny, I had this realization this morning that this is where all the pushback and disrespect for her stem from. Saying she writes too much about break-ups and past lovers, well as far as I can tell, that's what MOST singers write about, the men just as much as the women. What makes her objectionable is that she doesn't just moon over lost love; she calls out bad behavior and a lot of guys don't like that. But it sure does resonate for a lot of her fans.