I've already given you a lot to read, but here's something else that may interest you and shed some light on how and why our social system operates as it does. The Strict Father model is not the only one today but just a few decades ago it mostly was.
The Strict Father model is what we might refer to as traditional and patriarchal. In this model, the man is the head of the household and his wife and children defer to his authority, which he uses to guide them, encourage them, and keep them safe. He typically sets and enforces rules for the house. Self-discipline, self-reliance, and respect for legitimate authority are the crucial things that children must learn. In this way, the strict father shows his love, by putting those in his charge on the correct path and punishing them if they go off of it. This is how he prepares his children for a happy and successful life.
On a societal scale, this translates to a belief in the rightness of a dominance-based hierarchy, law and order, self-sufficiency, and respect for authority. “Rewards and punishments are moral acts; giving someone an appropriate reward or punishment balances the moral books. The obligation to obey is a metaphorical debt. You owe obedience to someone who has authority over you. If you obey, you are paying the debt; if you don’t obey, you are refusing to pay the debt — an immoral act, equivalent by moral arithmetic to stealing, a crime.”
"Empathy and nurturance are the primary focus in the Nurturant Parent model. The outlook is that children become responsible, self-disciplined, and self-reliant through being cared for, respected, and caring for others, both in their family and in their community. Nurturance requires support and protection and they require strength and courage on the part of parents. Children become obedient out of the love and respect they have for their parents and their community, not out of the fear of punishment." (as is the case in a Strict Father dynamic)