I've called out something that you said that was rude and pointless, and you can't even explain why you said it and/or acknowledge that it was gratuitous. It's not personal in the slightest. I don't know you from Adam. I just don't like to see that sort of bullying behavior go unchallenged. Women are subject to that shit online everyday for no good reason except that too many men feel fine about doing it.

And having said something that was snarky and pointless, you're still going to insist on making it about me as a deflection. I'll ask you one more time, why was that a "funny" or necessary thing to say? How did it add to the conversation? How did it do anything than needle a woman writer for having written about poor treatment at the hands of a man? And why is that a fun or necessary thing for a self-professed "non-sexist" to do?

I don't actually expect you to answer those questions because I suspect this sort of comment is reflexive and largely unconscious. That doesn't mean it it's OK.