I’ve never had a threesome where James wasn’t present, but I can totally get that it would be better than with people you aren’t as deeply connected to. James also really enjoys MFM for all of the same reasons that your husband said. He likes seeing me really sexually self-expressed and enjoying myself so fully. He likes watching me be in control of the dynamic and act like a sex goddess. And I really like that I can not only keep up with them but also keep both of them satisfied. MFM is one of my favorite sexual things, although FMF is pretty great as well.