I've never met a single person who believes that. You thinking that you have to provide something of value is you buying into masculine norms that come out of patriarchy. It's in your power to shift those beliefs - perhaps by joining one of those positive men's groups I mentioned and by disconnecting from the sorts of Red Pill rhetoric that I too often hear from you, which is disempowering and and also false most of the time.

https://www.positivemasculinitynow.org/