I've never said anything remotely like that. Don't hold me responsible for what one hateful person said to you and don't act like that's a widespread sociological dynamic because it isn't. Most women love men - which is what makes is so painful and disappointing when so many of them refuse to take any responsibility for the culture that not only harms women so severely and pervasively, but that also harms men. No doubt that woman had been very deeply wounded by men - which is not an excuse, but it is an explanation. Expecting victims to be kind and gracious is asking a bit much.