I've thought about this often in the past few years, how I think I fell into having a child because I thought that's was what I was supposed to do. It never occured to me to question that or even think about it in any depth. Don't get me wrong, I love my son and I'd fight a bear to keep him safe, but I can't help but wonder if I had it to do all over again if this is what I would choose. Maybe, but maybe not. We all need to know that we have choices and don't have to follow societal scripts - women as well as men.