Men have made their own bed and perversely insist on lying in it even though it is literally killing them. Then, they want to whine and demand that women care about their loneliness (which is no worse than that of women and they don't care about that one bit) - all of which is a direct result of patriarchal norms of masculinity that they insist too often insist on clinging to. A certain amount of contempt is in order.