My experiences there were pretty unpleasant and I didn't meet anyone that I would have truly wanted to be with. At this point in my life, I've had a ton of sex, and although I certainly want more, at this point I only want the entire experience to be great, not just the physical part. I'm really happy with my husband, and have some fun female friends that I like a lot to play with. I would love to find a man to play with who is local (my one male play-friend lives 10 hours away), but I'm not really willing to put up with the entitled bullshit that is so prevalent in order to go back into on-line dating.

Plus, I don't always want to lead. Sometimes I do, but mostly I want partnership, so I appreciate your encouragement, but I think I'm good (for now). 😉