My overall advice to men is to stop acting with so much entitlement toward women. You put them on a pedestal, and then are furious with them when they aren't actually fantasy angels who fulfill all your desires but are instead regular human beings just like men are. Are you literally attracted to every single woman you meet? I doubt it - but women aren't allowed that same?

And you do realize that if a woman thought you were decent enough looking to go out with and then said there was no spark - it's because your personality is crappy and you have no sense of what you even bring to the table. Taking that to mean you will never find anyone is just plain stoopid. It means that particular women didn't click with you because she's an individual who has her own preferences. It literally says nothing whatsoever about who else might find you attractive (provided you work on your game). Women are not a monolith and acting like they are is a part of your issue.

All those famous men I mentioned were with equally famous women. They didn't get them because they were famous - they got them because they were interested in women and knew how to interact with them in an attractive way. Don't you think that Gwen Stefani and Paulina Porzikova had other more famous, handsome, rich men in their dating pool they could have gone for? Hellloooo - you're not even thinking this through bc you're in so much cognitive dissonance.

Casanova was tall - but he also had a beak nose and pock mock scars. He wasn't rich - in fact he was constantly losing all his money gambling. What he had was charisma, and a real appreciation for women.

Plus, according to your link, people match with mates who have similar attractiveness, so what you're essentially telling me is that you don't want a woman who is in "your league" as you should be able to find according to your own link. You want an underwear model and if you can't have one, it's really, really unfair! 🙄

And if you can't get an "average" woman to date you, then it really is your crappy personality and lack of game.