Natural selection means survival of the most adaptable - that's what Darwin meant by fitness. Most young men today are not very adaptable at all, as far as I can tell, and no, women don't just go for the "top 10 or 20 percent" - that's demonstrably an incel lie to scapegoat women.
"The data shows men might rate women's attractiveness charitably, but they only messaged the most attractive 5s. Gentlemen, it appears when you step up to the bar, you all have champagne taste on a beer budget.
Burp. Not so for the ladies.
Women were far less charitable with men's attractiveness. They rated men mostly 1s and 2s and only gave out gold stars to the extra hot 5s. But whom women messaged tells a different story.
Women messaged more average-looking men and were less likely to message the most attractive men.
Academic research backs up the OkCupid data. The University of Oxford analyzed 150,000 male dating profiles and found that average-looking men got more messages on dating apps than attractive men.
So let me get this straight. Men complain that women are too focused on looks, but they are the ones scrutinizing the photos.
This same study also found that women spend 50 percent more time reading dating profiles than men. That is a startling disparity when examining what each gender puts on their dating profile.
On the distaff side, you will find lengthy profile descriptions waxing poetic on who they are and what they are looking for in a partner.
On the male side…you get a blank page. Most men don't even bother filling out their dating profiles, or they write, "just ask me." Ask you what? Why you are so uninvested that you can't bother to write 100 words? Then they slap a few lazy bathroom selfies up, hold up a fish, and expect the bitches to come running. And when they don't, they whine that it is because they don't have a six-pack and a Mercedes.
I promise you. That is not the reason why women are swiping left. Women want substance. We don't care how much bitcoin you have. We don't care about how many times you go to the gym. And we certainly don't care about your bullshit Pareto Principle to justify some victimhood version of hypergamy."
So, aside from the fact that you have absolutely no idea who a woman ultimately ended up with when she wasn't interested in you, the actual data says you need to stop bitching and become more adaptable. Having countless options of lazy, misogynistic assholes who treat women like sex-dispensing machines isn't really abundance, and a lot of women would rather be alone than deal with that any longer as clearly indicated in the news articles I've already linked you.
Continuing to cling to incel lies isn't going to get you a date.
