No, I did not say that AT ALL! And I specifically stated what I want men to do already. I want them to not just believe that abortion should stay legal, but to talk and write about that publicly because as I already stated, I have one gay friend on Facebook who is doing that and one gay friend and one straight friend on Medium. The rest is crickets from the men in my circle. I'm asking pro-choice men to do something that they are not currently doing. Stop being reflexively defensive and actually stand up for what you believe in, making your voices heard alongside your sisters who are scared and hurting. Why is that such a problematic ask?