No, it's because so called "incels" are violent misogynists who spend their days thinking about how they might rape women to death. Women are actually lonelier than men. Young men are more angry about their loneliness because men are more entitled and too often believe that women owe them things.

You're not wrong that traditional masculinity is bad for men's mental and emotional health but that's not women's problem unless they are reinforcing that -something that is hardly a given.

A huge percentage of men abondon their children after divorce. That's a terrible thing for kids.

Young men are facing a crisis of refusing to evolve with the times. Not our fucking problem... they need to get on board or end up extinct.