No, men should not be paying $ to go to these bootcamps because they are overwhelmingly put on by men who also don't know the first thing about women or how to actually connect with them (in a non-predatory way).
They should be reading Dr. Nerdlove and Michael Chief on Medium though - because those guys get it and are spot on in their advice.
Game is the difference between being an entitled lump moaning that women are shallow and mean and being a guy like Ben Franklin, Henry Kissinger, or Giacomo Casanova who cultivates charisma, learns how to flirt, learns how to make a woman feel special and interested in, and who actually likes women. Social skills can be learned and practiced and since they are absolutely THE most important thing to the vast majority of women, I recommend that most men beef up their skills - particularly if you grew up on your phone and don't have a lot of practice talking to other humans.
https://www.brides.com/what-women-want-in-a-man-4176695
While no two women are the same, we rounded up eight of the essential qualities that experts say all women want in a man. Read on if you need a few pointers.
Confidence: When a man believes in himself, knows who he is, and knows what he wants, it's very appealing to a woman, and is usually something she can tell simply from the attitude he exudes.
Compassion: A man who is compassionate and empathetic is one step ahead when it comes to attracting women. Women want a man they can open up to, whether it’s about a bad day at the office or in regard to their deepest hopes and fears. Having empathy means that you’re able to understand another person's point of view and can sympathize with what they are going through. Women are highly interested in a man who has the ability and desire to show care and concern for others, too.
A Sense of Humor: "When two people are laughing at the same thing, they are basically saying, 'I share your perspective, your values, and I certainly share what you think is amusing'," says Jeffrey Hall, Ph.D., associate professor of communication studies at the University of Kansas. Hall's study into the relationship between humor and romance found that the more times a man tried to be funny and in turn the more times a woman laughed at his jokes, the more likely she was to be romantically interested.
It's simple science that a man who exudes a happy, lighthearted, and positive energy into the world will make a woman want to be around him.
There are five more - you can read them for yourself.
Your outlook and your attitude is a HUGE part of your dating problem. You'd be a lot more socially engaged and probably a lot happier if you ditched the incel rhetoric and actually learned something about women.
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