No, your research that you can't link to that might not even exist says that, but Manosphere bullshit doesn't count for much. Mainstream sociology says that men who are bought into patriarchal gender norms intensely dislike and judge women acting in “masculine” ways.

The fact that you and other men like you hope that women will just magically drop into your lap without you having to actually show up as an attractive partner is the actual issue here. Call a sex worker, FFS! You don’t want a strong, confident woman — you want a sex doll that you can control with zero vulnerability — which is the exact opposite of an actual strong, confident woman.