Nope, never minimized your struggles or said they weren't hard. You are the one who constantly says, "But you don't know what it's like to deal with what I have to deal with," as if I've never suffered or never known anyone else who has.

I'm a pragmatist and a realist. As I see it, your two options are to continue with the narrative that there is nothing you can do to improve your situation or you can find ways to adapt. Clearly, you've made your choice.