Of course it's "reality" - because indoctrination into this small and restrictive box begins at birth and continues throughout life. Women have their own box to grapple with. The difference is (something I've already discussed with you) - the norms of the Lady Box aren't driving people to substance abuse, emotional isolation and suicide the way the norms of the Man Box are doing to men. Both are artificial social constructs - which is why I'm calling on men to help to change those artificially devised social norms to ones that are more pro-social and less likely to kill them (and other people).

If men are too attached to a status-quo that is very literally killing them that they refuse to adapt in their own self-interest, then most of them will eventually go extinct. 🤷‍♀️