Oh, I love this and will use it again with attribution. You've said a lot of good things here about a complex subject. The fact that you too have a more positive assessment for European Americans doesn't surprise me. About 50% of black people do. This is the product of our society and the racism that we are continuously fed.
Thanks for confirming that micro-aggressions are a major issue. I was trying to explain this to someone earlier, how it grinds one down and makes you feel that perhaps you are the problem.
You had a lot to offer to the discussion. Thanks!