Oh, I love this line!!! And yes to all of this. A lot of it is somewhat better for younger generations, but then there's still the dynamic in hook-up culture where guys expect to at least get a blowjob, but there is no expectation for the woman to get anything - other than the pleasure of giving him pleasure. The only way that kind of entitled BS is going to stop is if women stop it by expecting more for themselves and demanding that they get it.

When my husband and I were newly married he injured his neck and couldn't turn it easily so I had to drive. It eventually got better, but from there on, sometimes I drive and sometimes he does. It depends on the situation, whose car we are going in, who is more tired, etc. Then a few years later he started doing his own laundry. It's taken a lot of year to really get things where they are pretty egalitarian, even though he was never one of those "I'm the man" kinds of guys but so much of that stuff is deeply ingrained in the collective unconscious. Opening up our marriage really helped us see a lot of the ways that we had bought into a lot of traditional patterns without even realizing it, and that was a good thing.

What a great call to action and a fabulous story!