One of the things that I most love about spending time with Tamara is that we talk really openly about sex - including the funny things that sometimes happen during it. Every now and then we play in a group with one of her friends too, and then there is that dynamic in spades as we're all sharing our sexual selves with each other through our stories but also through our bodies. I really love how bonding and fundamentally human it feels. Not surprisingly, I’ve written about that too.