Part of the point of the story is that looks aren't the only thing that constitute "league" for women. Remember the Paulina part...

But yes, if a guy is so focused on being with his idealized beauty that he can't see her other qualities, he's probably not ready for a relationship. I applaud you for doing things like actually getting to know the women you dated and paying attention to their needs. I'm sure it was greatly appreciated.

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!