Patriarchy is somewhere between 6-9 thousand years old. It is not timeless and it is not human nature because for 97% of human history we did not live that way.
That's mentioned in every story of mine that I've ever linked to you. It's anthropology 101. I suggest if you want to enter into discussions with someone that you actually have some facts on your side.
I'll link a story on specifically that one last time for your convenience.
https://medium.com/inside-of-elle-beau/patriarchy-really-is-only-6-9-thousand-years-old-6ee0fcdfd118
As I've already said multiple times, I'm not interested in talking to you about whether the version of patriarchy that you engage in in your family is actually not so bad. I'm interested in dominance hierarchies on the societal level, and besides that, I have no objective way to judge your relationship since we don't really know each other. You, the top of the hierarchy saying, "It's really fine" isn't exactly an unbiased opinion.
Seriously, give it a rest already.