People, women-people, should definitely do what works for them in that department. I feel neater and cleaner trimmed up a bit, but when we got married in the early 90s, almost no-one was landscaping down there, and it was just fine. James is now in charge of maintenance in that area on me, but he also cuts his own pubic hair very short so it’s neat and sometimes even shaves his armpits. Bodyshaming your new bride on your honeymoon doesn’t seem like it would lead to anything good.