Polyamory isn't crap. Don't be so closed minded and judgemental about something that you clearly don't actually understand.
“Polyamory is unfair and destructive to women.
As Anne Shark put it so well, this couldn’t be further from the truth. “In my experience, poly women (myself included) are much less tolerant of toxic behavior from their male partners. The nature of polyamory is indeed equality!”
This doesn’t mean that it’s perfect and ideal all the time, but the relationship structure allows for much more autonomy than is typical in most monogamous relationships and bad behavior (from anyone) is less likely to be tolerated.
Two-thirds of existing monogamous relationships that open up do so at the request of women, although it’s definitely something that both partners really need to be on board with in order for it to work well.”