Pregnancy is 20 times as dangerous as skydiving and the US has the highest maternal mortality rate in the developed world. Plus, most states already have hundreds of thousands of kids in the foster care system. There's no guarantee that your pregnancy will result in a loving home for a child. But these guys don't know these facts and don't want to know them because it's all about their religious/patriarchal narrative about the place of women - so yeah, there's no point in engaging with them.